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Your Mom Has Made You Who You Are -- Could That Be A Bad Thing?

Your mom has played a strong role in how you date today.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 
Tough Love #4: Flirting
Tough Love #5: Being Sexy
Tough Love #6: Dealbreakers
Tough Love #7: Mommy & Dating 

Nearly two years ago, I did a similar post on how a woman’s relationship with her father is a near-direct reflection on her relationships with the guys she dates. The same can be said about her mother.

Most of Your Dealbreakers Make No Sense

Are you willing to throw out the checklist?These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 
Tough Love #4: Flirting
Tough Love #5: Being Sexy
Tough Love #6: Dealbreakers 

I hate the word “dealbraker.” 

I believe it’s sets up everyone for failure. 

The Secret To Being A Sexy Woman

Confidence is sexy.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 
Tough Love #4: Flirting
Tough Love #5: Being Sexy 

The misconception some women have is sexiness has a lot to do with what they wear and how they look.

In fact, it has less to do with how you look as it does with your attitude.

Inner & Outer Beauty

What do YOU see?These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 

Women will typically think men will value outer beauty over inner beauty. For the most part, women are right.

However, the men, who a woman will want to pursuing her, will be valuing her inner beauty much more than one thinks.

How to Create A Positive First Impression

There will be tons to talk about this season.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression

Steve Ward and his mother JoAnn have done something pretty amazing. 

They’ve been able to take a reality show and not only make it entertaining, but also educational in many ways. The balance of drama and personal growth is something you rarely see in reality TV these days.

And it’s important to have shows like these on the air because it’ll continue to build awareness of how to carry yourself in this new digital age.

Now, let’s talk about first impressions.

Tip Tuesday: The First Date

Don't mind if I do.Every Tuesday, we ask people from Team Wingman & Twitter what they would like me to talk about. It could be a general topic or a direct question. I’ll choose the best one and later that day, I’ll write something and give tips addressing that topic or question.

"Question: Got any advice for a first date?" 

This what I said in 140 characters on Twitter [follow me]:

It's pretty straightforward but I'll break each point down a little more.

Monday Maverick: People Watch

The secret to starting your social skill development.Every Monday I’ll be giving tips on different perspectives on dating that will “free Your mind.” Like a true Maverick, I’ll give an unorthodox approach to everyday scenarios that will help you in your dating life and potentially beyond.

"Observing the people around you."

If you know me, you know I am a big fan of practice over reading. You just can't replace that kind of real-world experience.

It's the reason why companies prefer people who have already worked in their industry. Why hire a rookie when you can hire a seasoned veteran?

At the same time, I get it. It's not that easy to just go out there and do whatever it is you're supposed to be doing...

Truth of the matter is, most people don't know what they need to do in order to improve their social skills. This is why most people lean toward reading -- to gain understanding and knowledge and feel better about what they're trying to do.

Top 10 Thursday: Ways to Master Speed Dating

Every Thursday, I will put up a top ten list of awesomeness, with short descriptions and tips. Feel free to laugh, enjoy and pass them around.

Top 10 Ways to Master
Speed Dating

I regularly get questions about speed dating. I've run my own fair share of speed dating events and have seen a lot. You only have just a few minutes to make an impression so it's important you put your best foot forward. Here are my Top 10 tips to help you.

Tip Tuesday: How To Follow Up With A Woman

What's waiting for you on the other side of the phone.Every Tuesday, we ask people from Team Wingman & Twitter what they would like me to talk about. It could be a general topic or a direct question. I’ll choose the best one and later that day, I’ll write something and give tips addressing that topic or question.

"Question: How do I follow up with a woman?" 

This one will be easy and straight to the point.

Let me start off by congratulating you for getting the number. Hopefully, you called/texted her right there to make sure she got yours as well -- and to make sure her number is actually real.

You did that? Great. Now let's get down to business.

There a 4 easy steps to take when following up. If you follow these steps, you'll have better success in getting dates.