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Discipline of Dating: Stage 1 -- Knowing Who You Are (Part 1)

Are you the man you want to see?Welcome to the Discipline of Dating series. If you haven’t read the brief introduction to what we’re doing here, read it before you continue.

Remember, this series is meant to give you ALL of the tools necessary to create dramatic results in your dating life.

Only one thing; you have to take action.

This piece will focus on Stage 1 of the Wingman Model we talked about yesterday.

Stage 1 is all about clarifying who you are, what you are, where you are now and where you want to be.

You’ll become aware of your body and the adjustments you’ll need to make to get to where you want to be.

You’ll be given action exercises that will help you understand who you are to the core.

Once you follow through with all the exercises and pass the checklist, you’ll be able to move on to Stage 2.

Discipline of Dating: Introducing the Best Free Series on Dating EVER

Are you willing to invest the time needed to do this with ease?

2011 is coming to an end, whether we like it or not. We, here at The Professional Wingman are making a lot of changes and VERY excited about 2012 -- and you should be too.

First, I want to thank everyone who took the survey we sent out last week. It showed me a lot of insight on what my readers are thinking as they come to the site.

I want this site to be the best. Not just at giving you free stuff but better stuff that other coaches or dating sites will make you pay money for.

Only the best from here, forward.

Your Mom Has Made You Who You Are -- Could That Be A Bad Thing?

Your mom has played a strong role in how you date today.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 
Tough Love #4: Flirting
Tough Love #5: Being Sexy
Tough Love #6: Dealbreakers
Tough Love #7: Mommy & Dating 

Nearly two years ago, I did a similar post on how a woman’s relationship with her father is a near-direct reflection on her relationships with the guys she dates. The same can be said about her mother.

The Secret To Being A Sexy Woman

Confidence is sexy.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 
Tough Love #4: Flirting
Tough Love #5: Being Sexy 

The misconception some women have is sexiness has a lot to do with what they wear and how they look.

In fact, it has less to do with how you look as it does with your attitude.

Inner & Outer Beauty

What do YOU see?These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression
Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age
Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty 

Women will typically think men will value outer beauty over inner beauty. For the most part, women are right.

However, the men, who a woman will want to pursuing her, will be valuing her inner beauty much more than one thinks.

How to Create A Positive First Impression

There will be tons to talk about this season.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression

Steve Ward and his mother JoAnn have done something pretty amazing. 

They’ve been able to take a reality show and not only make it entertaining, but also educational in many ways. The balance of drama and personal growth is something you rarely see in reality TV these days.

And it’s important to have shows like these on the air because it’ll continue to build awareness of how to carry yourself in this new digital age.

Now, let’s talk about first impressions.

Monday Maverick: Get Rejected

Get used to this. It'll help you become more attractive.Every Monday I’ll be giving tips on different perspectives on dating that will “free Your mind.” Like a true Maverick, I’ll give an unorthodox approach to everyday scenarios that will help you in your dating life and potentially beyond.

"Get recjected every chance you get."

While my clients are focued on being more successful in attracting women, I always encourage to push themselves as hard as they can.

Things are going well? Keep pushing forward.

The trouble with this concept is some people haven't had enough success in their lives to take those kinds of risks.

Wednesday Wisdom: A Dating To-Do List

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Every Wednesday I will share a thought, message or quote that will be not only applicable in your dating life but also every other aspect of your life.

I had the pleasure of talking with Judi Huck, Community Manager of Producteev, an online task management tool.

We talk about if flirting had a to-do list, what it would look like. So after talking about video games, racing and boss battles, we finally came up with a solid list of things that I feel will help you.

Thanks to Judi for the write up.

Create Your Flirting To-Do List.

P.S. If you need a task management tool, I've been using Producteev for months for me and my team and it's honestly the best I've ever used.

Tip Tuesday: The First Date

Don't mind if I do.Every Tuesday, we ask people from Team Wingman & Twitter what they would like me to talk about. It could be a general topic or a direct question. I’ll choose the best one and later that day, I’ll write something and give tips addressing that topic or question.

"Question: Got any advice for a first date?" 

This what I said in 140 characters on Twitter [follow me]:

It's pretty straightforward but I'll break each point down a little more.