lifestyle

How A Client Helped Me "Get Lucky"

This is Week 3 of the 2011 Dating and Lifestyle Kickstart Guide. Thursdays, we cover the dating aspect. If you missed it, here is week one's dating component. Here is week two.

I want to share something awesome that got lost in the fray. I helped a friend, Tim, on Twitter, who was also a client of mine, handle some important issues in his life. My advice, combined with his action, did so well for him, he was willing to pay for another client’s session with me.

And after working with the Alex for an hour, this is what he had to say shortly after,

Don’t Should All Over Yourself

This is Week 3 of the 2011 Dating and Lifestyle Kickstart Guide. Tuesdays, we cover the lifestyle aspect. If you missed it, here is week one's lifestyle component. Here is week two.

After a busy weekend with clients, I reached out to them for feedback and follow up, explaining next steps and what they need to focus on. Their reply was something I’ve found to be VERY familiar. 

“You’re right. I should do that. I know I should take more risks and approach more people.” 

It’s funny. You see, I know how much people use the word should based on their lack of using the word, but. Most people who will make an attempt to push themselves will admit the problem or make an excuse in hopes of finding or being given a solution. Others accept their shoulduation and don’t even bother to address the problem, let alone the solution.

People should on themselves all the time.

Make Changes in Your Lifestyle

This is Week 2 of the 2011 Dating and Lifestyle Kickstart Guide. Tuesdays, we cover the lifestyle aspect. If you missed it, here is last Tuesday's Lifestyle component.

Now that you've created your lifestyle inventory, it's time to look at how to make the time you do certain things more effective and efficient. I give a real-life example from a current client of what kinds of adjustments you can make immediately to make it work.

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State of the Union Address - For Your Dating Life

This is Week 1 of the 2011 Dating and Lifestyle Kickstart Guide. Thursdays, we cover the dating aspect. If you missed it, here is Tuesday's Lifestyle component.

Today, you will be focusing on three things before determining where you will find your potential match(es). Then, I give you three VERY effective resources for finding them. 

Links used:
eFlirt Expert
Meetup
Email questions to me 

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Create a Personalized Lifestyle Inventory

This is Week 1 of the 2011 Dating and Lifestyle Kickstart Guide. Tuesdays, we cover the lifestyle aspect.

Today, you will be giving yourself a lifestyle assessment to see what needs to be adjusted in order to have the kind of life you desire.

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Can You Change Your "Game?"

2011 Dating & Lifestyle Kickstart Guide Overview (Part 4 of 4). if you'd like to follow along from the beginning, please check out the introductory video, part 1, part 2 and part 3 of the overview.

Starting Tuesday, January 18th, I’m going to start the 2011 D&L Kickstart Guide. If you actually implement the things I share, you’ll have more success in your dating or general lifestyle than you’ve had in a long time.

Here’s the rundown.

I double dare you.

 

2011 Dating & Lifestyle Kickstart Guide Overview (Part 3 of 4). If you'd like to follow along from the beginning, please check out the introductory video, part 1 and part 2 of the overview.

Here is a story of a client who really didn’t want to work with me.

I have friends and other people who will tell me they know someone who could use my services. I always appreciate people who will go to unusual lengths to help out a friend. For those who are serious about helping out their friend, I have them bring their friend out to meet me over drinks and something I call, a “reverse intervention.”

Why people who don’t choose to be single stay single?

2011 Dating & Lifestyle Kickstart Guide Overview (Part 2 of 4). If you'd like to follow along from the beginning, please check out the introductory video and part 1 of the overview.

In over two years of coaching, I’ve talked to hundreds of people about their dating lives and what they think is preventing them from finding someone. I can’t say I’ve heard them all but I’ve heard a lot. After I hear what they think, I ask them one question. 

2011 Dating & Lifestyle Kickstart Guide Overview (Part 1 of 4)

I was with one client, catching up on how things have been going with him. We worked together for 3 months before he ended up meeting his girlfriend on a train platform and they’ve been dating since. He actually told some of his friends that he was working with me - and that it worked. One of his friends couldn’t believe he worked with me, saying, “wow, bro. I can’t believe you needed to get help get laid.”