If you want to have women gravitate toward you in a way that seems almost effortless, leadership is the answer.
You see, leadership is an “intangible” quality few men possess and women find this quality especially attractive.
But it’s gets better:
What if I showed you how to have leadership qualities to attract more women?
Read on.
The Secret to Leadership: Emotional Stability
When you’re out meeting women, how do you show leadership?
It’s not something you can just pull out of your wallet like an ID.
In a study done years ago, it was found that attractiveness is not just “stationary.” It is, in fact, “dynamic.” [source]
Your body language and personality plays a definitive role in your overall attractiveness.
But the question still stands: How do you do it?
How to Convey Leadership to Attract Women
I want to make it clear these concepts take time and practice to truly master them because they go beyond the “tactical” level of strategy.
Set the tone of your conversations by allowing women to be creative. Attractive women are approached by men dozens of times per week and are asked the same questions over and over again. If you ask those questions, she’ll just see you the same as every other guy.
When you can make conversation interesting and challenging for women, it stimulates their creativity in a way not often done by men. In that way, you immediately stand out from the pack.
Show praise and appreciation for women. Show her she’s not the only woman you’ve talked to but you value the time you’re spending with her. Some of the best ways to do this is through flirting -- starting off with complimenting, then teasing her.
It not only shows your interest in her but also let’s her know you’re not just a big softie -- you’ll definitely zing her every so often.
Be direct and honest. This applies to you and her. Know what you want and be unapologetic for it. Never look for permission to do anything, as long as it’s within the confines of being respectful.
Having a genuine consideration of a woman’s attitude can go a long way to alleviate the crushing blow of rejection or enhance to ultimate rush of making a connection with her.
How Leadership Attracts Women
What’s the key to emotional stability?
You must display an ability to “keep your cool.”
This simple trait can grab a woman’s attention because they will feel secure around you in various moments of their own vulnerability.
At the same time, a man who’s a leader isn’t afraid of being vulnerable himself and loves to create a better experience the people around him.
If you apply these concepts to convey leadership qualities, women will flock.