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Monday Maverick: People Watch

The secret to starting your social skill development.Every Monday I’ll be giving tips on different perspectives on dating that will “free Your mind.” Like a true Maverick, I’ll give an unorthodox approach to everyday scenarios that will help you in your dating life and potentially beyond.

"Observing the people around you."

If you know me, you know I am a big fan of practice over reading. You just can't replace that kind of real-world experience.

It's the reason why companies prefer people who have already worked in their industry. Why hire a rookie when you can hire a seasoned veteran?

At the same time, I get it. It's not that easy to just go out there and do whatever it is you're supposed to be doing...

Truth of the matter is, most people don't know what they need to do in order to improve their social skills. This is why most people lean toward reading -- to gain understanding and knowledge and feel better about what they're trying to do.

Top 10 Thursday: Ways to Master Speed Dating

Every Thursday, I will put up a top ten list of awesomeness, with short descriptions and tips. Feel free to laugh, enjoy and pass them around.

Top 10 Ways to Master
Speed Dating

I regularly get questions about speed dating. I've run my own fair share of speed dating events and have seen a lot. You only have just a few minutes to make an impression so it's important you put your best foot forward. Here are my Top 10 tips to help you.

Wednesday Wisdom: What Would Ari Do

Every Wednesday I will share a thought, message or quote that will be not only applicable in your dating life but also every other aspect of your life.

With one of my favorite shows of all-time, Entourage, coming to an end, I thought it was only fitting to post a video montage of Ari's best moments. He's the only person I know who can inspire you, while pissing you off at the same time.


Monday Maverick: Football

Hoping for this to happen in February 2012.

Every Monday I’ll be giving tips on different perspectives on dating that will “free Your mind.” Like a true Maverick, I’ll give an unorthodox approach to everyday scenarios that will help you in your dating life and potentially beyond.

"Using football to meet
more women."

This post is meant specifically for football fans.

This post was inspired by the VERY annoying Jets fan screaming and slapping her hands on the bar everytime she saw a Jets player on the screen. I loathe you.

For the next 6 months, every Sunday, Monday night and some Thursday nights -- and if you love college football, Saturdays -- will be consumed by football.

As much as we will have our eyes glued to screen and screaming at ridiculous plays and calls, understand there's an opportunity to meet women easily.

Top 10 Thursday: Ways To Touch Women

A future player.Every Thursday, I will put up a top ten list of awesomeness, with short descriptions and tips. Feel free to laugh, enjoy and pass them around.

"Top 10 Ways to
Touch Women"

People ask me what's the biggest mistake guys make when meeting women. Touching women is a close second to approaching women.

I tell my clients, "if you're not touching her, you're just having conversation."

If you wonder why you're always that guy in the "Friend's Zone," this may be the reason.

The only way to truly have her see you as more than a friend is to create a state that gets her to think about you romantically.

Flirting is the overall tool to do that and within flirting, touching is the most important factor.

Today, you are going to get 10 ways you can initiate natural contact, while showing her you're interested.

Tip Tuesday: Career Women Are Too Intimidating

Every Tuesday, we ask people from Team Wingman & Twitter what they would like me to talk about. It could be a general topic or a direct question. I’ll choose the best one and later that day, I’ll write something and give tips addressing that topic or question.

Keep meeting dudes that are intimidated. How do I nab a confident dude?

I decided to take a different approach to this one and ask follow up questions to get a clearer idea. Then, we got to the heart of the issue. We'll go play-by-play. I want to thank her for allowing me to share this conversation anonymously as she is an awesome gal!

I asked her where she is going to meet her potentials? Her answer:

Wednesday Wisdom: Become Blind To Fear

Every Wednesday I will share a thought, message or quote that will be not only applicable in your dating life but also every other aspect of your life.

This quote comes from a story of facing fears told from my perspective in a piece featured on the site revolution.is. Here's a link to the full story.

"I choose to put my focus on proving the naysayers wrong while making a difference in the world."

Make the decision to prove yourself wrong, be the person you know you can be and be THE difference in the lives of people you meet.